Wednesday, September 26, 2012

Getting Started/Birthday Grumpies


So, my name is Melanie Horan and I have decided to start a blog. I want to reflect on the daily goings-on in our home life. I feel that this would be a good outlet for any rants, cheers, and general “tell the world” info. Hopefully, what I find meaningful to me will be to others as well. This will start as random postings, and becoming more regular as time goes on.

So first, a little about me - I am writing this on my 42nd birthday. I have a wonderful husband, Andy, to whom I have been married for 13 great years. Together we have 2 daughters who fill our lives with love and laughter. Sarah is 11 (almost 12) and started middle school this school year. Kelly is 9 and is in 4th grade. We live in a quiet town near the Jersey Shore.

Today was one of those days where things go wrong and make you grumpy on a day when things should make you happy. So it was my birthday. My kids remembered, my husband remembered and I got a lot of well-wishes on Facebook. For the rest of my family, I did get some people remembering, but again (about 4-5 years now) my father did not call. I don’t need gifts or such. Just the acknowledgement is enough. I should be fine with it by now, but it just made the grumpy mood that I woke up in worse.

And things got worse. I found out that our dishwasher was recalled and now I cannot use it until it is fixed or replaced. So Andy and I decided to use a check from his parents that I had gotten for my birthday and go out to lunch. So we looked for coupons that we could use and found one. We did have a good lunch and a good time, but when the bil came it was over the amount we had planned to spend. Between splurging on an appetizer and Andy getting a beer, we didn’t pay enough attention to how much we were spending. So there went any extra money.

So I decided to write my feelings down. These posts may not always make perfect sense. Sometimes they will just be a rant such as today. Sometimes I will have great information or a deal that I want to share. And sometimes I may just want to share good news. Whatever the day holds, these will be the musings of a mom from the Jersey Shore.